あちら立てればこちらが立たぬ

あちら立てればこちらが立たぬ、彼方立てれば此方が立たぬあちらたてればこちらがたたぬ achirataterebakochiragatatanu

JMdict entry #2419480

expressions (phrases, clauses, etc.) proverb it is hard to please everybody; damned if you do and damned if you don't